I like strong women

While I was reading Gone Girl, I came across a sentence that made me terrified.

Amy says that when a man is dating a woman - and she is a strong woman - and the man says "I like strong women" - that he actually hates strong women and will cheat on you because you are too much work. 

I am a strong woman...probably obnoxiously so. I definitely have a voice that I exercise. Often. 

TJ tells me that he likes that I am a strong woman. 

Ruh-roh.